Essence of Trust

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,

“Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you won’t fall into the river.”

The little girl said, ” No, Dad. You hold my hand.”

“What’s the difference?” Asked the puzzlled father. “

Theres a big difference,” replied the little girl. “If i hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.”

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours…

forwarded email lang po, ni-forward ko rin sa ilang friends at sa ilang boss ng company, at isang boss ng company namin ang nagreply…. eto po ung reply;

Charlie,
(company name) is holding the hands of almost everybody
but it needs a very strong grip.
You are one of them that the company
believe will provide a strong grip.
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Comments

  1. MarcoPaolo says

    so true parekoy… Thumbs up!

    So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours…

    hold lang nang hold… para di makawala… hehehe!

  2. Dhianz says

    love the short story of that "essence of trust" and awww.. luv d' message of the story at the end of it… "In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours…" —> okei… so i'll juz hold his hand then… hehe… ang sweet… graveh… yeah trust den lang sa isa't isa and yeah it'll make a difference as well if we have God in the middle of our relationship… naks… may "we" akoh ngaun?… haha… sinong we?… lolz… hi kuya CM!… parang tagal na kitang nde nakausap ahh… sana ok kah nah po ngaun… prayerz lang lagi… Godbless! -di

  3. Mr. Thoughtskoto says

    there are times that the baby girl have to hold his father’s hand, but most of the time its the father who hold his sons/girls hand. It is what we call guidance…and the bigger meaning is trusting. But when the kids grow old, we can’t hold them all the time, we have to let go and let them hold us from time to time, so they will grow.

    my 20 cents Lordcm… hehe

  4. jEn says

    awww…
    makes perfect sense kumpare!hehe

    In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours…

    ganda ng mensahe!:D

  5. ORACLE says

    Huwaaaw! Gusto ko ito!

    “So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours…”

    It also speaks of un conditional love din kasi. Tama. Love and trust goes together. They always do. Unconditionally. Wag lang papaka toinks. lolz 🙂

  6. Lord CM says

    Hehehe 😀 Parang inulit nyo lang ung message sa post ko eh…at un na rin comment nyo lolzzz

    @marco…
    mukhang ayaw mo na pakawalan ah 😀

    @dhianz…
    andito lang ako lage…tamad lang ako magpost at magcomment sa mga post nyo 🙂

    @Kenji…
    Agree ako jan pre…walang bibitaw 🙂

    @Mareng Jen..
    ano ba sasabihin ko? ….ganda nga ng mensahe 😀 … adik ka na nman ah lolzz

  7. RJ says

    Ang kwentong ito ay para sa isang ‘relationship’… Pero kung sa business parang nabasa ko dati sa isang kwento, ‘Don’t trust anybody’.

    Maganda ang kahulugan, sino kaya ang nagsulat nito?

  8. Dhianz says

    kuya CM.. patawa lang… hahaha… natawa akoh sa hirit moh sa reply komentz moh para sa lahat… "Hehehe 😀 Parang inulit nyo lang ung message sa post ko eh…at un na rin comment nyo lolzzz
    " —> hahaha.. pansin moh… kinopy and paste lang nang karamihan ang quote… 'la nang masabi… lolz.. hayz.. salamat sa tawa.. lolz.. GODBLESS! -di

  9. Dhianz says

    hahaha.. oo nga eh… pero natawa tlgah akoh kanina don sa hiritz moh.. graveh… as in may tunog na hahaha.. lolz.. sendali.. pabasa nga ‘ung sinasabing panaginip man na post moh… oo nga eh nde koh alam… i guess i was absent dat day… tsk!.. lolz.. ingatz lagi kuya CM!… Godbless! -di

  10. Lord CM says

    @dhianz…
    Tulad din ng post mo ung dahilan kung bakit naging Panaginip Man, kunwaring totoong nangyari pero bandang huli may alarm 😀 …

    Enjoy reading 🙂

  11. Dhianz says

    katatapos koh lang basahin… pakoment na lang ditoh ha… absent nga akoh non… nde koh alam ‘ung post nah ‘un eh… teka kelan bah ‘un? eniweiz… kapag binabasa pa lang ‘ung umpisa eh iisipin moh tlgah na tunay na nangyari… okz sana saya nung gulo nang kasama moh at usapang spaghetti… fave koh den yan… binanggit koh lang… kaso nga lang dehinz gano masaya cuz may part nang dream moh na nasagasaan… kala koh naman kumikislap tipong may ginto sa ilalim nang sasakyan… so yeah.. ‘un…binasa koh… ‘la akong life ngaun noh binasa koh… kanina pa akoh nagbabasa… pahinga koh nga muna yutakz koh… wehe… pero ‘un nga saken… sayang… kelangan gumising eh… alarm clock kc…lolz… ingatz kuya CM.. Godbless! -di

  12. Jez says

    sa sobrang natouch sa iyong post, wala ng ma-icomment kundi ulitin na lang post mo..aheheheh

    So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours…

  13. jhosel says

    tsk. ang ganda ah. ang short lang nung story ni lil girl and daddy pero grabe ang impact.

    tsk tsk. di ko na dadagdagan pa ang comment at baka pati ako magcopy paste rin. ahehe. basta maganda. lol.
    cheers CM!

    ai meron pa pala. naks naman si boss super compliment sayo, di ko lang alam kung talagang malaking bilib niya sayo o namemressure lng xia. lols. 🙂

  14. Melissa Is LOVE says

    Hey, thanks for the comment, and for adding me up in your blogroll. 🙂

    Yup, I’m an IT student at San Beda.

    BTW, Nice blog!

  15. poging (ilo)CANO says

    ayus ang reply sayo ng boss mo parekoy! ibig sabihin nun, isa ka sa mga tagapagtaguyod ng company nyo…sabay lolz…

  16. PaJAY says

    talian mo na lang para sigurado..hahahahaha

    AYos si bossing a!..

    hingan mo na ng increment yan!…lolz…

  17. jEn says

    kumpare..nasa dugo ko na ang pagiging adik..wla nang magbabago dun..
    hehe…
    may tnong ako..pano pag ayaw pahawak sa kamay? pwede bang talian na lang sa leeg? hehe..

  18. Lord CM says

    @dhianz…
    at talagang ni-balikan mo ah 🙂 … ngayon alam mo na kung bakit panaginip man lolzz

    @amor…
    itali mo na lang kaya 😀

    @jez…
    nyahahaha, copy paste din

    @jhosel…
    ilang beses ko nga binasa ung reply ng isa sa mga boss, di ko maintindihan eh, english lolzz

    @Melissa…
    Thanks you rin po sa pagbisita muli 🙂

    @Pogi…
    toinkz!!!hindi no, ako ang president ng company lolzz

    @Pajay…
    sana nga pre eh, kaso tagal na ng email na yan…naalala ko lang kasi nabasa ko post ni dhianz…cost cutting at walang increase 😀

    @Mareng Jen…
    wag naman sa leeg, ginawa mong aso eh..sa kamay lang, sa kamay lolzz

  19. Chyng says

    I will. Thanks for sharing.

    big issue na ngayon ang trust, so hold on to that someone.. mahirap paiba-iba. juke!

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